Our family delayed social media until 16. We’ve now allowed one platform, and the choice may surprise you. There are many reasons to say no to Instagram, Snapchat, and Tik Tok when your kids ask. For years, the answer to my oldest daughter was no. Not yet. You are not ready. I am not ready. We are not ready.

Children are not ready for the comparison, self-doubt, violet imagery, toxic beauty content, dangerous challenges, online predators, and everyone else’s highlight reel of perfection on these platforms. 

The Wait Until 8th pledge is spreading like wildfire in the community of Fairfield, Connecticut! Over the past few weeks, more than 200 families have said yes to delaying the smartphone for their children!

How does the pledge gain momentum in a community? It usually starts with one parent championing the pledge and encouraging other parents to delay the smartphone together. In Fairfield, Keri Langerman is spreading the word to parents in her community.

Peek behind the world of an eleven year old boy before and after he has been gifted a smartphone. The difference is vast and should give any parent pause before making the decision to give such a powerful device to a child.

One Mom shares a letter with her daughter explaining why she is not getting a smartphone for her 12th birthday.

Learn what smartphones don't teach by getting a glimpse of a girl without one. If you liked Middle School Misfortunes Then and Now, One Teacher’s Take, you don’t want to miss this eye-opening read.